Its been a while since I have wanted to pick up the camera and do anything with it.  I love taking pictures of the sunrise, but I also really enjoy staying snuggled in my bed. Recently we took a trip down to NSW which was a perfect opportunity to get out onto the beach and watch the sun come up.

The scary part is driving to an unknown beach in the pre-dawn pitch black. I’m always a little paranoid but armed with my solid Manfrotto tripod I trudge off along the beach and set up and wait. Every time is different. Some days you get the beautiful burst of orange first light against the deep blue black of the night sky but recently I have been gifted with cloudy dawns.  Cloudy dawns are much more subtle with the clouds reflecting the first light across the horizon but muting it at the same time.  You have to sit and be patient, and wait for the changes in the light – you never know what you will get and when.  The benefit of a cloudy dawn is that the dawn shooting is much longer. On a clear day once that sun peeps over you only have a few moments before the light becomes intense and the shadows begin to lengthen.

Sunrise at Flynns Beach Port Macquarie

Sunrise at Flynns Beach Port Macquarie





My second favourite moment of the sunrise is the time when the beach springs to life.  I have to say, Port Macquaire on the NSW mid coast surprised me. I expected there to be more activity in the pre-dawn.  Often I am joined by boot-campers, joggers, swimmers or surfers before the sun peeps up. But on this day it was eerily quiet until that light had brushed the sky. And then almost as if there was an unspoken rule the beach erupted with activity.

Lone surfer

Lone surfer


Just an ordinary Thursday

*Disclaimer: I want to start off by saying we know we are lucky that our little girl does not have cancer or another terminal illness, that she wasn’t snatched away or killed in a car accident.  We are very grateful for what we have. But we also have the right to grieve. Each person can only deal with the situation they are given. This post wasn’t written to start some sort of pity competition between parents about who has the sickest kid.  It is a chance for me to express my emotions about our situation and grieve about what we have lost. Every person has the right the grieve about their own situation – no matter how big or small. 



I have done a lot of crying in the past couple of weeks. Mainly silent sobbing in the dark while I sat in an arm chair beside my little girl as she slept beneath crisp white sheets and hospital blankets.  Mostly I cried for her, the loss of a simple and regular childhood, the loss of her vibrant and carefree nature, the loss of that innocent “nothing-can-hurt-me” light in her eyes.

My carefree baby girl

But I also cried a lot for myself. Of all the things that had been so simple; school, work, eating out at restaurants, sleeping… that was probably the worst, when I realised I will never truly sleep again. I have cried because I love my job and I worry that I may not be able to give it my all any more. I have cried because the dreams that I thought were almost in reach now seem very, very far away again. And I have cried because I am scared of losing my baby girl in the depth of the night while I sleep through my alarm.

On Thursday the 21st of November at 6:30pm my six year old daughter was officially diagnosed with type 1 diabetes.  It has taken near on 3 weeks for me to write this down as I was, and to some extent still am, in a state of denial.  There was no dramatic scene that played out before our diagnoses, no inevitable family history that set the scene.  There was nothing except one annoying little habit, I thought. Endless trips to the bathroom that kept us up at night.  Which led to a grumpy Facebook post, some fortunate coincidences and some very helpful advice of friends and family.

I remember the exact moment our lives began to turn, when I picked up my phone and read the text from my husband, “Miss A blood sugars are a little high, perhaps having that chocolate frog before we went into the doctor was a bad idea”. I remember grumbling at my phone thinking this was going to mean extra testing – perhaps something like that fasting test you do when you are pregnant, never thinking there was actually anything wrong.  I rang expecting to him to say, “she’s fine, doctor just wants to make sure, it’s just a little abnormal.”  But what he said was that her levels were so high that they were on their way to the Royal Children’s Hospital in Brisbane.  I think even then I held onto some hope that we would get there and they would say that it was possible that it was just a virus or something temporary.

The first time I lost it was when I picked my son up from after school care and had to tell him we were on our way to the hospital because they thought his sister had diabetes. By the time I shuffled through the snails-pace traffic that special numbness that gets you through difficult situations had gratefully set in. As I came in the door of the emergency ward there was my gorgeous girl, eyes bright and shining getting a cannula inserted with barely a blink. It was at that moment that I saw what an incredible little thing she was and I knew if anyone could cope with this it was my brave baby girl. – me I wasn’t so sure about

Still smiling

Still smiling

There were a flurry of doctors and nurses, many questions, many hours spent sitting trying to distract both children from the screams and crying of other children being brought in to emergency in much more heartbreaking and desperate conditions. Finally a nurse came and spoke to me and asked if I would go with her to get something. She told me that we would be doing the first of Miss A insulin injections and what to expect.  She told me we could either tell her what was happening or just surprise her with it. She told me about how she had seen other children react and to expect that we would have to hold her down to inject her – if not now then at some point in her lifetime… her lifetime – yep that hit hard. I have never believed in lying to my kids so we were upfront with her and she was so brave. She watched the whole thing and didn’t even flinch. There were stickers and much praise and a wheelchair ride up to the ward.

And so began our week on the ward. A week of finger pricking every 2 hrs or so and insulin injections 4 times a day. That night as I sat in my green leather recliner surrounded by sick children watching my baby sleep I cried.  Silent, hot tears streamed down my face, I thought they would never stop. I refused to make a sound because I knew across the hall, in the next bed was probably a parent who was dealing with a child that was never going to leave this hospital or would leave only to return days, weeks, or months later maybe recovering, maybe not. I was so acutely aware of our blessings that our daughter was safe and well, that she was being treated in the best place and that we would walk out of this place with a whole healthy child. But at the same time I was slowly beginning to process how things were going to change – forever.

When the nurse came in to do her finger prick in the middle of the night, I wept anew.  I had just gotten to a point where I was usually getting an unbroken nights sleep more often than not – that realisation that I would never again sleep through the night again just about broke my heart. Knowing that even when we eventually got a night away I would still wake and worry that whoever was looking after her had slept through their alarm, knowing that even when she grew up and left home I would still lay awake at night and pray that she woke up the night morning and hadn’t fallen into a coma in her sleep.

The morning came and with it our new routine.  I was led by the dad in the bed next door. He was an old hat at this having been here for two and a half weeks already.

  • Wake with the sun at around 5am – depending on how much sleep you managed to get the night before (sometimes I was so over tossing and turning that getting up was a relief, other times it seemed I had only nodded off at 4am and I tried to ‘sleep in’ until 6am.
  • Fold up my blankets and if I was lucky enough fold away the fold out sofa that I had scored for the night (we rotated it around the parents who were in our ward)
  • Go get a cup of tea and a piece of toast from the parents lounge. You couldn’t take hot beverages out of the room so it was often scoffed down in case Miss A woke.
  • I would try and read while I waited for her to wake up but usually I would end up just sitting, watching and over thinking things.
  • When Miss A woke we would do finger pricks, insulin and breakfast before showering and getting dressed for the day. I would take my time and do her hair, something we never did at home. We were always too busy.
  • I would wait for my hubby or someone else to arrive before I hurried off to have my shower hoping a doctor wouldn’t come while I was gone.

What I wasn’t expecting was how I would react to the whole situation.  The first day I left her in the hospital to go home and get some clothes I think I had my first panic attack. I’m not really sure having never had a panic attack before but it is how I imagine one must feel. My heart was racing and I felt like I was suffocating, all I could think about was getting back there. To say I became a completely unreasonable control freak (at least in front of my husband and close family) is probably an understatement.

Late on Friday afternoon we attended our first education session where we learnt about how to recognise and treat a hypo – a difficult concept when we had never seen our daughter experience one before. We were equipped with our first blood glucose monitor, a bottle of Lucozade, and a ton of information to read. This meant we could go walking around the hospital and get out of the ward which was a great relief to our little girl who didn’t look or feel sick. The Wonder Factory became our second home – such an amazing place with fabulous volunteers.

That night an angel appeared in the shape of an old school friend of mine.  Her son had been diagnosed at 17mths and it was her that had sent me a PM via Facebook on Wednesday night to encourage me to take Miss A to the doctors. She brought in a bad of goodies including her son’s favourite hypo treatments; a can of fanta, jellybeans, fruit jelly. Things for Miss A to do in hospital and a block of chocolate that became my dinner for the next 5 nights, but most of all she and her dad – who also has diabetes sat and talked to me when I know they must have been tired and she had her own children to look after. It was so nice just to talk to someone who had been doing this for years and was still sane and could tell me it would be OK.

The saddest day was Monday.  It was Monday that my little girl turned to me while we were having her shower and said, “When I go home, do I still have to have all these needles”. This was the moment I had been dreading. How to explain to a six year old that their carefree life of eating, playing, learning, laughing and sleeping was going to be forever punctuated by endless finger pricks and injections…  That day in that tiny shower cubicle was the closest I ever came to crying in front of her.

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That was the first time I heard her say a phrase that is now a common part of our daily dialogue. “I wish I didn’t have diabetes”. I certainly use stronger phrases when out of earshot of the kidlets. That day I watched the light go out of her eyes. She was lethargic, she was sad. She didn’t want to do anything, I guess that is what a depressed six year old looks like.

Tuesday she started asking if she could do her fingerpricks herself. I had a lump in my throat the first time I heard her ask if she could do it. I was so proud of her.  We spent the rest of the morning learning to inject plastic bellies and then they handed over the needles to us and we had to practice on our daughter.

Tuesday night we were given a leave pass to go to the kids school concert. Our first taste of experiencing this new world on our own.  My little girl was so scared of leaving the hospital – have to say I was pretty freaked out myself. It’s like that day when you leave the hospital with your first child and you are sitting in the car with this person that you are now entirely responsible for. We were now her pancreas, and can I just say I had no idea what a complex job being a pancreas actually is.

Wednesday they let us out. We gathered our supplies, loaded up our many bags and set out on our new journey. Since then I have discovered that living with diabetes is very much like having a newborn.  Getting out of the house takes twice as long, you can’t leave without a ton of stuff you never had to have before including a blood glucose monitor, insulin pen, needles, sharps container, food… some days it seems the list is endless.

Most days I am left wondering if we will ever get back to a point that feels like normal. Where we can go out and not worry about what we are going to eat and when. A friend of mine gave me the advice to not make everything about diabetes, which is hard when Miss A’s life depends on it. But in the last week there have been moments when I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. An hour or two has passed without me thinking about diabetes, blood sugars and insulin.

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We are so blessed to have such supportive family and friends. Some who know what day to day life with diabetes is like and others who are just there for us to lean on. Thank you for your advice, companionship and just being a shoulder to cry on, especially to Renay, Fiona, and Caroline and your children for letting Miss A know she is not alone, to our parents and family who have been such a great support, everyone who came and visited Miss A while she was in hospital so she didn’t go stir crazy, to my work colleges for the balloon bouquet and just being awesome and to our IRL and online friends, new and old who have listened to my whinging and put up with my inability to think or talk about very little other than diabetes lately.

Every moment matters

There comes a point in every persons life when they realise how precious every single second is. That moment when you become aware that you need to soak in every minute of every day whether its doing something amazing or doing something mundane.  For many that point in life comes late in life, when old age or illness has set in and made you aware of how quickly time has passed and how much you have missed just through not living every moment to the full.  For me – I was lucky.  I reached that point in my life just a few years ago and it changed the way I view and experience everything.

Now every breath I take I appreciate, whether that be while I am hanging out the washing – a chore I abhor, or playing on the beach with my precious children, I love that moment. I find something good in it and I love the life right out of it.  The warm sun, the crisp wind, green grass, the bright contrasting colours of the graffiti, the decaying mortar on an old building. The wrinkles on that womans face, his shoes, the way my daughters hair curls up into ringlets, the way my son’s eyes shine when he talks endlessly about Yu-gi-ho or Pokemon, the way my husband smells when he leaves for work, the fresh smell of the washing I hate hanging out, the way the sunlight catches on that cobweb above the line.

Don’t get me wrong I have bad days too, when I loose my patience with my kids because they are driving me insane or when I forget something and have to go into the house 3 times or when I just need to lock myself in the bathroom to finish that Candy Crush level in peace, but even in these moments I remind myself to be present and appreciate it .


This Sunday we washed the car and I loved every minute of it.  As we finished off I ran to get the camera because it was just such a gorgeous carefree moment. My husband gave me a quizzical look – honestly you would think he would be used to this by now; “really he said – washing the car?” And I smiled at him because sometimes its hard to explain in words how beautiful these simple joyful moments are.

Relay for Life

It was an early start for my family this morning.  We met at the Redcliffe Jetty at 5am with trestle tables, boxes of homebaked goodies and lots of enthusiasm.  We set up before the sun rose and had time to stop and watch this gorgeous sunrise.

Sunrise at the Redcliffe Jetty

Today was the morning of our annual bake stall for our Relay for Life team. Each year we participate in the Redcliffe Relay For Life, to raise money and fight back against cancer; a 16 hour relay to demonstrate our support for suffers and carers of this dreaded disease.  But before we get to the relay we fundraise.  And so begins the giant bakefest that precedes the McNutty Clan’s great Bake Stall

Just a small example of what part of my kitchen table looked like Saturday afternoon at 6pm

We were completely overwhelmed with the generosity of people who baked, bought and just helped out in the lead up to our bake stall.  Without these people we would not be able to raise the amount of money we do to give to the Cancer Council.

And after a beautiful day in the sunshine selling cookies, fudge, and cake pops; after selling literally hundreds of raffle tickets, chatting to so many generous people who were so willing to donate to such a worthy cause we managed to raise $942.  This money goes towards funding clinical trials, research as well as patient care and staffing a support line. (

So the question I want to leave you with is…

Who will you relay for

An afternoons wandering

What a beautiful day today was!  Clear blue skies, warm sun and two kids with plenty of energy.  I am always on the look out for new locations to take my clients  to and capture some stunning images.  The other day I spotted another little walking track I hadn’t seen before and I finally had some time to check it out today.

We packed ourselves a little snack, a hat and the camera and set off to find some gorgeous light and nice locations to capture some memories.  Unfortunately my kids are maybe a little sick of having their photo taken

My daughter trying to take a serious photo

My daughter trying to take a serious photo

There were lots of laughs to be had and we found a new place to go exploring – plenty more paths to tackle next time as well!  Hoping to find the little lagoon that is hidden down there somewhere.

Would you like to have some photos taken in this lovely bush setting?  Contact Sacred Moments Photography to find out more – I can’t wait to hear from you

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Capturing your event

I recently had the honour of capturing some community events around Brighton and Redcliffe.  Event photography is something that is especially close to my heart.  When I look back at my life there are so many moments I wish I had captured on film (or mega pixels these days).

My bridal shower, baby showers, kids birthday parties.  As the years go past and I flick through the photo albums I find a couple of happy snaps of these important events caught quickly in the rush of the moment, many more are probably stashed away in someone else’s album, hard-drive or a box under the bed.  Those moments that you think you will remember forever – the way your child’s eyes lit up when they opened that present or the way you ran and hugged your best friend you hadn’t seen in years when she turned up at your bridal shower – these are the moments that aren’t in those happy snaps and they slowly fade away in memory as time passes by.

That is why I love event photography.

Birthday party.  Kids party. Bridal shower. Baby Shower. If its special to you – I can be there to capture it forever.

A lovely afternoon for a picnic

My daughter is in year 1 and this term they are learning all about animals and their habitats.  We often go for ‘bush walks’ I suppose you could call them – we prefer the term, ‘Adventures’.  One of our favourite places to adventure in is the wetlands near our house.  And after a busy morning of ballet practice and soccer games Miss 6 asked me if we could go Kangaroo spotting today so she could gather some research and get some photos for her teachers.

We have found a number of mobs of kangaroos and wallabies in Tichi Tamba before but these aren’t tamed marsupials that will welcome you into their habitat.  These are wild kangaroos and very timid.  In particular the big males are not fond of people coming close especially when their are young ones around.

So we set off just before dusk to hopefully spot some kangaroos and I took along the camera as it is one of my favourite places to get some beautiful family shots in the wide open spaces in the lovely soft afternoon light.  My eldest brought a book, of course and Miss 6 was taking notes and making diagrams.  I only managed to capture one dodgy shot of a little wallaby family (I think) – no tripod and failing light and very shy animals. I’m sure we will be heading back soon – perhaps next time 🙂


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Keeping me busy

I have been a bit quiet lately and for a very good reason.  Each year my children’s school has a fete and it is a very big deal in our house.  As a working mum  I often don’t get to do the ‘school mum’ stuff.  I miss a lot of assemblies, excursions and classroom visits because my day job is being a teacher – which means when my kids are at school, so am I.  But the fete is the one time when I get to feel as though I am giving something back to the school community and embrace my other love – baking!  So for the last 2 weeks every spare moment has been spent baking and freezing in preparation for the big day.

The day dawned overcast and rainy but as always seems to be the case at St Kieran’s fete in Brighton; as the people started rolling in the clouds started to roll out.  I got to watch my kids perform their dances and hubby and I did our hour on a stall each and the kids bounced from rides, to games to animals, even Nanna conquered the ‘Space Invaders’ ride with my gorgeous boy